Testimonials.

Working with Molly has been a very unique and rewarding experience. Together we've worked through relationship challenges and life challenges – and had some laughs along the way. From the first session Molly helped me give myself permission to take a broader view, pulling back from the challenges in my relationship and creating space for me to feel what I was feeling. Our sessions have evolved since then and have helped me to understand more about my patterns and my inner emotional world.

Through our sessions, I've started to get clarity on some areas where I need healing. Which is an especially beautiful thing in such a crazy and confusing time, personally and globally. It's been amazing to work with someone coming from a queer, poly and anti-capitalist perspective. Molly 'gets it' at a deep level and we're able to get to the heart of things much more easily. I have already recommended Molly to some friends and will continue to do so. I dare say the world would be a better place if everyone had a little bit of Molly time each week.
- N

Molly has a generous and grounding energy. They gave me prompts that helped me start thinking with more clarity about my needs and desires around relationship dynamics - with romantic partners, metamours, and beyond. I'm grateful for the foundation we laid as I move forward in building relationship agreements together with partner(s) and as I seek the kind of community that's aligned with my values.
- P, 36

Before working with Molly I'd already given a lot of thought to the questions I was coming with around relationships and nonmonogamy; I had read a lot and discussed a lot with my friends, but I had a hard time applying these reflections and making concrete changes. After working with Molly I feel much more secure in my ability to relate to others and in my ability to take care of myself, trust myself and deal with all of life's ups and downs.

I really appreciated the way Molly legitimized my feelings and valued my own resources by focusing on the things I already knew how to do. I felt a great deal of gentleness and understanding from her. The fact that we shared the same values, whether in terms of queerness or non-monogamy, meant that we could get to the bottom of difficult subjects without being hindered by norms. I remember a particular time when I was questioning my ability to engage in non-monogamous relationships due to my insecurities. Molly’s initial response was empathy, acknowledging my struggles in deviating from social norms. I realized that it was very precious to work with someone who didn't pressure me to conform to any norms at the first sign of discomfort.

I've regained my self-confidence after a particularly difficult relationship and I feel much more grounded as I've explored skills that enable me to be much more at peace with myself. I have a better ability to identify people with whom I can relate in a calm and respectful way, and I also have more tools to make these relationships work. I feel less lost in relationships, even when intense emotions are present. The work I did with Molly has borne fruit in my current relationships, and I'm surrounded by kind, gentle people with whom we can discuss our needs in a way that respects our individuality.
- Lucie

I started doing work with Molly during a transformative life change about a year ago. I’ve been in therapy off and on since I was five years old, experiencing different approaches and techniques, but mostly just that 'talk it out' kind of therapy. I had just moved to a new country and state where I didn’t know anyone for 200 miles. While I had other supports—therapists, movement practices, journaling—Molly was sometimes the difference between whether I could get through a week or not. And that's difficult to admit. Molly’s coaching was different. Her approach and the tools she gave me helped me move through the feelings that often left me stuck in ruminative thoughts, and she held space for me when I felt most dysregulated and lost. 

As I got to know Molly and had more sessions with her, I realized how much more effective her approach to coaching was than the traditional talk therapy I had been doing for most of my life. She helped me notice how my nervous system shaped my experiences and taught me ways to recognize what safety and connection felt like in my body. Her coaching helped me through challenges that arose in nonmonogamy, and later, when my partner and I chose monogamy, she supported me through similar relationship struggles with the same care and insight. Molly also helped me navigate complex feelings of losing a relationship with a parent in the middle of all of this. Some of the most important work we did together was values work -- through that I was able to get closer to envisioning the kind of relationship I truly wanted, learning how to stay grounded and act in alignment with what mattered most to me. Through this journey I have also learned to give others grace and accept them as they are, instead of trying to control situations out of fear of abandonment.

I'm still working on it, I still struggle in my relationships, I still get dysregulated in ways I wish I wouldn't, BUT I have the experience of many hours put in working through relational challenges with Molly that I can call on when I need to. Molly balances deep knowledge with humor and flexibility, always meeting me exactly where I am, which felt so essential and important to me during my most difficult times. I am more connected to what I want and how my choices align with that because of our work together, and I would recommend her to anyone ready to explore deeper layers of self-understanding, connection and relationships.
- Sara